I feel strongly that everyone should have easy access to accurate information about contraception, and my experience has been that learning about my own physiology and being an active participant in preventing or achieving pregnancy can be truly an empowering experience.
I wrote this post about the fertility awareness a couple of years ago, but was inspired to publish it here today after chatting with a friend who has been trying to conceive for a while. Jaymz and I had some difficulty conceiving the second time around, and charting my basal body temperature with the FA method during that journey helped me to know when something was off in my body and I needed to visit with my midwife. After some blood tests revealed that my progesterone levels were low, I was able to make some changes that ultimately led to getting pregnant with Joel.
This post contains frank discussion of reproductive health, physiology, and sexuality. Consider yourself warned!
My first exposure to Fertility Awareness (FA) as a method for planning or preventing pregnancy was through attending Catholic school starting in sixth grade. Part of my health education in high school was to learn about the female reproductive cycle and how to read and interpret its signs to help prevent unplanned pregnancy, or to achieve pregnancy when desired (after marriage, of course).
The Fertility Awareness method is also called Natural Family Planning (NFP), but it is not to be confused with the Rhythm Method, which is what people usually think of when they hear this method mentioned. Unlike FA or NFP, the Rhythm Method is a completely calendar-based method which assumes every woman has a 28 day cycle. It uses counting the days of the cycle to know when to abstain from intercourse (during the assumed fertile time) in order to prevent pregnancy.
When I learned about Fertility Awareness in depth in nursing school, I was completely fascinated by the fact that simply by paying attention to changes in cervical mucus (CM) and tracking basal body temperature (BBT), women can quite accurately know when they are ovulating. The FA method works best for women who have regular cycles (which don't vary a lot in length from month to month) and also who have no other concerns when it comes to their reproductive health (like PCOS, trouble with infertility, etc).
Other Benefits of the Fertility Awareness Method Include:
- Effective pregnancy prevention without the use of hormonal birth control or other more invasive contraceptive methods;
- Ovulation prediction without the need to use anything like an over-the-counter ovulation prediction kit (OPK);
- Effective as a combination method to use with other contraceptive measures (particularly barrier methods like condoms or a diaphragm and spermicides, which do not interfere with ovulation like hormonal birth control).
The changes in CM and BBT are all due to various hormonal shifts in the body. Here's a representation of the ups and downs of different hormones throughout the cycle (Credit: Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com):
How to Measure Basal Body Temperature (BBT)
Keep a thermometer and a BBT chart (or a pad of paper and a pen) by your bed. (Here's a free, printable BBT chart from Baby Center. If you want to use an easy online service, I can recommend Fertility Friend. If you have a smartphone, there are lots of apps out there that help with cycle tracking; my favorite is OvuView, but it's only available for the Android platform currently.) When you first wake up, take your temperature and write it down (or chart it). Always take your temperature via the same route (whether you choose orally, rectally, or vaginally) to get consistent results. I always took mine orally—why go to the extra hassle, I figured.
You will notice that for the days of your cycle before you ovulate, your BBT will stay pretty consistent (within a range which is normal for you). On the day you ovulate, you may notice a slight drop in your BBT, and then there will be a sharp incline the day after you ovulate. If the egg isn't fertilized during this cycle, your BBT will fall again just before you get your period, which begins your next cycle. This is what a typical cycle looks like for me (my temperatures don't usually have a very wide range like a lot of women, though my chart still follows the expected pattern):
|The vertical dotted line denotes Ovulation day, the CM row |
shows both menses and CM changes throughout the cycle
If the egg is fertilized after ovulation, your BBT will stay high as it was just after you ovulated. If your chart looks like that and you've missed your period, it's likely that you're pregnant. Here is my chart from the month I got pregnant with Daniel:
|See the little plus sign? Yep, I was pregnant! |
(Also, notice the implantation spotting on 6 days post-ovulation)
How to Monitor Cervical Mucus
During the fertile period of the reproductive cycle, the mucus the cervix produces changes from clear and thin or creamy to thick and sticky (resembling egg whites). The term "egg white cervical mucus" (EWCM) is used to describe this thick, stretchy mucus that accompanies ovulation. Just before ovulation, the amount of EWCM will be at its greatest (providing a favorable environment for sperm to live). If you put a bit of EWCM between your fingers, you will be able to stretch it. (This all may sound a little gross, but once you become more familiar with your body's cycle, it won't seem unusual to be checking cervical mucus.)
Cervical Mucus can be monitored one of two ways: by inserting the fingers into the vagina to retrieve some mucus, or by simply observing the mucus that is wiped away when using the toilet. Either way, noticing the changes in the CM can help you to know when your fertile time is getting near.
Here's a helpful visual representation of the changes in CM throughout the cycle (Credit: Planned Parenthood):
Another fertility marker that can be monitored while checking cervical mucus is the position of the cervix. Just before ovulation, the cervix generally is in a lower position in the vagina than during the infertile parts of the cycle. This is something you'll have to get to know over time: If you've never felt your cervix before, you might not know what its current position is relative to other points in your cycle.
I have used the FA method for many years, both to avoid and achieve pregnancy. Jaymz and I effectively used this method before I became pregnant with Daniel, and when we were ready to become parents, I was already familiar with my cycle, and we knew when the best time was to try to get pregnant. We were lucky enough to get pregnant during the first cycle we were not preventing pregnancy. In the interim between giving birth to Daniel and getting my cycle back, we consistently used barrier methods, since we weren't comfortable enough with the efficacy of lactational amenorrhea at preventing pregnancy. (I believe it was a smart decision for us, since my fertility returned at seven months postpartum, despite the fact that I had been breastfeeding on demand and co-sleeping.) We used the FA method again (to prevent pregnancy) after my cycle returned when Daniel was a baby, and then (as I mentioned earlier) we used it to help us conceive baby Joel.
Things I like about FA:
- I've gotten to know my body better through using this method. It's gotten to the point where I'm always aware of what stage of my cycle my body is in, and I like having that information.
- As someone who loves empirical data, I enjoy the charting aspect of FA. I like knowing I'm able to have more information about what's going on in my body, and I enjoy tracking it from month to month to see the patterns emerge.
- This method doesn't alter my body chemistry in any way; it works with what my body is doing naturally. I never liked the idea of taking hormonal birth control, and I also wasn't a fan of how it made me feel.
- It's nearly free, costing only the price of a thermometer.
- It can be taught to women in developing countries as an effective method of controlling family size.
- It's not great for people who don't have a regular cycle (which doesn't vary much in length). For a while after I stopped taking hormonal birth control, my cycle was very irregular and I was unable to confidently use the FA method during that time.
- It can be hard to remember to consistently take your temperature at the same time every morning. Hopefully after a while, it becomes routine, but at first it can be hard to think of doing when you're groggy first thing in the morning.
- Taking your temperature every day can get annoying after a while. Remembering to do it, writing down the temperature (on paper or in a tracking system), etc. can feel like a little much month after month.
- It's not a good method for people who do shift work or who don't have a regular sleep-wake schedule. FA works best for people who go to sleep and wake up around the same time every day. When I used to work 7PM-7AM three nights per week, my data wasn't as accurate because my sleep schedule wasn't standard all the time.
I hope you find this information helpful! As always, nothing I post here is intended as medical advice. Please trust your personal judgement and the advice of your healthcare providers when it comes to making decisions about your health.
This post has been edited from the original version published at Diary of a First Child.
This post has been edited from the original version published at Diary of a First Child.